96 sunfire annoying starting issue

[Colebilly2472]

Been having starting problems with my 96 sunfire, first the solinod went bad so it got a new starter and starter relay, then a new battery, then found that the wires going to the neutral/safety switch where corroided at the connector, so i by-passed the neutral/safety switch, it also has a new ignition switch, but i still have a starting issue, it only does it in about one in every ten starts but that one start always seems to be when im not at home, when i turn the ignition on and can hear the fuel pump kick on, i have lights and power to my accesories, but when i turn the key to start i get nothing, i got power at the positive stud on the starter, and power and ground at the relay, ive tried my best to look through the harness for bad wiring but cant find none, once the car does act up and will not start, if i wait anywhere from 10 minutes to sometimes an hour or so and get back in the car and turn the key it starts right up and will not act for awhile, so anyone have any thoughts on what im overlooking