There are 3 temp sensors.
The gauge/light is located on the trunk side head on the left side.
The ECM temp sensor (the one that affects idle) is located on the intake manifold lower section near the battery and comes out horizintally.
The Fan temp switch is just above the ECM temp sensor going vertically.
With the auto You should only be at around 2500rpm with the TCC engaged and around 2800 without it at 65mph. If you are up around 4000rpm, The trans is slipping. Could be it needs a flush and fill as the fluid may be burnt.
If the RPM's are still high, Check the IAC and also for vacuum leaks.
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